I have been seeing her for about 9 months, and we have been romanticly involved for about 4 months.
They have been living seperate lives for the 4 months her and I have been close, he has said he would break up with his girlfriend if she would take him back, she is the one who wants out of the marriage (13 year marriage)...even before we met.
Yes we have filed for divorce.
Her daughter and the home seems to be the major hang ups., the home is in both of thier names and they have proceeds to split in the event of a sale.
We see each other on average 2 to 3 times per week, and at times my home.