Well i left a message on the phone saying 'hi it's A and sure i just rang to have a chat and catch up. You have my number to give me a ring, bye'.
Shortly afterwards he text he say that 'he was not interested'.
I replied 'I wish you well'
I've analysed what I said and did wrong and don't more what I could have done, I'm always getting hurt and disappointed, it's so disheartening.
5 days ago he text me and apologised and stated that he wanted to see me again upon his return from holiday. I accepted his apology and said yes if ' you want to see me then get in touch when you return'. He said that he would for sure. The following evening he sent me another text just generally asking how I was but I didn't receive and reply to this until the following morning. There has been no further contact with him since then but that's ok with me because he's away and enjoying himself no doubt. He deserves it because he is an extremly hard worker which is one of the attributes I do admire about him. I have deleted his number so I won;t be tempted to make contact. I belive the only way I know for sure if he's interested is if he is to make contact now as I can't which is good. I know this is hard to say but do you think he will make contact?