Thanks for responding to me. He put himself on an online dating and that's how they met. He is still taking medications for his depression and bipolar. She wants to be friends and she lives about 60 miles away. She kept "finding" things that he left behind when he move back here so he continued to go down there to pick them up. He knows it bothers me but says we are not married so he should be able to come and go as he pleases. He continues to tell me that he is doing nothing wrong and is not sleeping with her but he has lied to me before. He left because she locked him out of the bedroom and played the stereo all night. Asking that she turn it off or he would, she said if he did she would call the police and tell them he hit her. She also locked the bedroom the next morning so he had no way to get his medications or clothes. She told him not to eat any food that she bought. When he texted her to ask her to come home for lunch so he could get his meds, she said she didn't care if he went into a diabetic coma. She has since apologized and said she wants him back. She has a lot of money and more time. He said that she doesn't like me and feels I stole him from her (they were together 1 month-we were together 9 years!) I don't know how much more of this I can take. I talk to him and he gets angry with me. I paid for him to move back here (Uhaul, etc.) and got people to help him. The old saying "you always hurt the ones you love" rings true!
I don't know what to do!