I'm 62, look good, good health, great family ( not perfect, all married with families, but very openiionated regarding people in my life). I was married 15 years, divorced 26 years. Reasons, many, money, lack of respect. I have just run into someone i have been involved with before, it was a very on again off again. My family does not like him, he has a drinking problem. He functions ok, but drinks every day, all day, on the other side, he is very loving, giving, respectfull, family person. he thinks my children are terrific, they think he is slime. We ran into each other, and immediate sparks, i had not talked with him for over 3 years, i had asked that he not contact me. i was tired of the strugle between my kids, over him.
I am asking for help, i don't want to let him back in, just to hurt him or me again. What do i do? you would think a woman of 62 would know, but being alone is also not a good thing. In the 3 years i have not come across anyone that i would even entertain the idea of getting together with.
One more bad thing, i realy don't like or respect his children or Mom, and adores mine.
I am clicking the accept. but first i just wanted to thank you. I know that what you say is what i know, sometime you just have to hear it from a third party. I realize that my family, daughters, and son-in-laws just feel i deserve better.
Thank you with all my heart.