Thank you for your quick response, I've been married for about 16 years now and been unhappy for about 10 of them to be honest with you. Yes I'm still seeing the other person only as a friend but i can see this developing into something more then just that. No my wife does not know of her but suspects thou. You know I have told her that I was unhappy and it just seems that she tries to hide from it or run away from it.
Thank you so much for your help,