We are both in our 40s believe it or not!
She has called me on the phone and I ended up giving her a ride home once.
When I started seeing him, he told me that he just ended his last relationship.
(that was with her).
He told me that he runs into her only once in a while and that they are friends.
I have asked him several times to stop, and let it go. But he then just does it behind my back. He claims that he loves me, but it seems hard to believe. They are in constant
contact, she texts and calls late at night and he tries to say its somebody else calling.
I have asked him to send her a email, telling her that this is really hurting me and the "friendship" should be more respectful to me. As of yet, he does not want to do that.
I do love him, but do not know if i can take it, much longer. I need some good advice!
The drinks are after work, I think.