Yes I am 31 and he is 43 years old.
Yes we have met a couple of times in April adn May and to be honest the connection was really good it felt like wearing an old pair of shoes. He was goign to start this huge project at work which is supposed to end on july 31st hopefully. He did not realize the demands on his time it would have and he admittedly told me that and that he was having a had time balancing things at the moment and that this project was a means to an end for him for now. He also apologized for not giving me enough attention and made it very clear that he care about me and still wants to spend time with me but right now it was difficult, hence the plans for august and possibly two otehr trips in sept and oct.
We are planning to go on vacation on 26th August, he invited me to his house on that day then we take off the next morning.
Yes he has been married and is divorced now.
We usually talk over the phone quite frequently except for this month. We last spoke on july 6th he said he would call on the following day but did not. He send a short e mail on july 14 telling that he was really feeling the pressure that eveything was happening all at once at work and so was just crashing when he got home at night.He said he would call that night if he made it back into town at a decent hour and that was the last I heard from him.