I pay all household ultities (gas, heat, water bill, phone, cable, etc). I buy grocies and prepare meals. My husband pays mortgage. However, I contribute to home renovations and repairs. My husband mainly take care of the yard and outside of home. I do the most of the cleaning in home-he washes and irons his own dress shirts, will vacuum and load dishwasher. I pay two life insurance policies for the both of us.
My main concern is if not legally I feel morally he should put my name on deed of home.
I have broach this subject several times I only gotten vague answers. I am sure his is afraid of losing his home. However, I have my own fears which seem to be of little regard to him.
I beleive my husband lives by a "double standard" which is unacceptable to me.
Would this issue qualify legally for a separation in New York State? Am I unreasonable to take this issue to this level ( terminating the marriage).
Thank you for your response.