I haven't rang the guy yet. I was just not sure if i still have to mention about the place for my brother. It just might make him feel bad that he couldn't help me with this problem. He is very busy with his final dissertation in university. He is also sharing a flat with his friends( he told me that before) I don't know how many of them. I feel that he might be thinking I want my brother also to share with them a place ( I told him he will be coming soon from our country to study) because he is a student and it will be cheaper. we are all from the middle east and in europe now for studies and I think he feels its a problem he can't help me because his friends might not want anymore people in the house.I have told him also I share a flat with other students (girls). Also the other thing because we are coming from different arabic countries our dialects are diffrent and its really difficult for me to understand his dialect. When he knew he started talking in standard arabic so I can understand but that is very formal and I always laugh about it. I also started talking to him mostly in english now and when we met last time he also spoke a word from his dialect again that i don't understand and we had a laugh but then he said thats why i want to talk yo you in standard arabic. I also mentioned to him that I was brought up in africa thats why i can't understand other arabic dialects. I start thinking now does he feel uneasy because of the place for my brother I asked and if I should mention it again or because of the language. Please advice me.