Have Relationship Questions? Ask a Counselor for Answers ASAP
Yes you should seek Marriage counseling as your last resort before making any major decisions about your marriage and if he does not agree to marriage counseling then the decision is yours as to how much more you are willing to take and if you want to try a trial separation but starting a relationship without finding closure in your marriage will only make things more complicated. If you are not happy and he isn't willing to get help to make things better then you have to do what makes you happy but only after you have made up your mind where your marriage is and where you want it to be. You could also have your husband talk to his doctor and see if it isn't possibly a medical condition that may be helped with medication. Try all avenues before leaving the marriage so that way if you do decide to leave your marriage you know you tried everything you possible can and can leave with a clear conscience.