I am gone a lot with my two jobs - that was a big issue. I tend to get overtired so he wasn't happy that I wasn't "chatty" when I got home. He complained about my daughter-in-law who is a very difficult person (we saw them maybe 4 times a year) and who would sometimes try to pick a fight with him. He was upset because I wouldn't come to his defense. He says things aren't going to change if he came back and he would rather stick it out there. He says he loves me "as a friend but is not in love with me". I am not even sure I understand that. He says that I am depressed and should have been on medication a long time ago - the list goes on. We are still in touch somewhat but there are restrictions which I do understand.