Though she told you she isn't ready for a relationship she still wants to date around she was married and usually when a marriage ends the other person wants to date around and see what is out there for them. They don't want to tie themselves down with yet another relationship to tie them down. If I were I would give her some time to date around and she may see that you were the right one for her but you should sit around waiting for her to come around you should date around also but continue to be friends. She may feel that she will be missing out on dating around and see what is out there if she only dates you. I would give her at least two months and then ask again how she feels about relationships. The only thing you can do is give her time to figure out what her next move will be. Like you said she just got divorced and may not want to feel confined to just one person again.