Hi Cher, thanks for your detailed reply..
Thing is i'm pretty sure she will say no to just dating me exclusively.
On one hand Im thinking hang in there. Let her do her thing and eventually she'll realise that I'm worth it.! On the other hand I feel like im just toeing the line till she finds someone better....
Obviously she does like and care about me somewhat, but should I call her bluff and just say its all or nothing.. so to speak?
PS She's not the type to sleep around.
Thanks again Cher... Some great advice.
One last thing!
How do I stop myself falling for her while Im waiting for her to get this 'playing the field'/'seeing who's out there' thing out of her system...!?
Also would it be a good idea for me to go on other dates myself (letting here know if she asks).? - Would this make me more desirable? I mean would this make her think twice if she knows that Im 'seeing who's out there' too..?
Hi Cher, good stuff...!
'Cool and laid back' Thats me in a nutshell usually, but because of the circumstances I feel like I need to prove myself/impress every time we meet and this makes me a bit tense and unable to totally be myself..!
You're welcome, thanks for your understanding and thoughtfull answers..
I think I will make myself available to date and see other people. Though I will endevour to bring back my cool, laid back self with a bit of romance thrown in to boot.!
Your advice is much appreciated. I feel more confident about things already..!
Will let you know how it goes.. Whats your email? (only joking!)