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You should only get a divorce if you feel that is what you need to do but it seems like you can work things out if you both make the effort to make the marriage better for one he has to involve you more on the financial part of the marriage instead of just telling you you're spending all of the money ask him to show you how you are doing that. What you should do is sit down and write down the good and bad in the marriage and then decide if the marriage is worth saving and if the answer you come up with is no then I would proceed with the divorce but if you do not want the divorce then you should talk that over with your husband as soon as you can. Maybe also consider going to marriage counseling and also set up a budget so that you aren't spending to much of the household finances. If you are having second thoughts about getting the divorce then don't do anything you will regret later make sure you definitely want this before go ahead with the divorce.