Yes it's very possible to have a healthy and loving relationship with 7 children but you won't find it in someone that isn't family orientated or has children themselves and take care of them. If you find someone that is young and doesn't have experience with children they may not understand that your children have to come first so try to find someone that is already settled and ready to have a big already made family it's not impossible. There are places online that you can go like Single Parent websites there are often fathers on there also looking for someone to settle down with and raise their families. There are also support groups for single parents with children. Meet men that have the same interests as you and are really family orientated. Also I always say make a list of characteristics you want in a mate and then if a man doesn't meet half or more of those things on the list don't even bother dating them.