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im havin problems with my husband he is in other country waitin

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im havin problems with my husband he is in other country waitin for spouse visa,last 4 months i been depressed so intimacy not there yet, should i stay with him or break up? this is last conversation we had/ John says:well im not coming back with you
Bushra says:why
John says:i want wife who will do what i ask when i ask no matter what it is
Bushra says:so cos i said n sex party?
John says:not that
Bushra says:so?
John says:will u make me video sex if i ask
Bushra says:yes
John says:u will play in it ?
Bushra says:yes
John says:and if i say tonight we will have party sex will u
Bushra says:no
John says:i may want that
Bushra says:i would do it if it wasnt sin
John says:ok
John says:if i tell u to kiss some guy will you?
Bushra says:no
John says:why
Bushra says:dont want to
John says:so u will not do all i say
Bushra says:do u think if u tell me go kiss a guy i will say ok???
John says:i expect u to say ok
John says:i expect my wife to do as i ask
Submitted: 4 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  KimberlyF replied 4 years ago.

HiCustomer Thank you for asking your question on JustAnswer. By the way, it would help us to know:

 

-What are your ages?

 

-Why are you living apart right now?

 

-Do you want your marriage to work?

 

-Have you and your husband ever lived together?

 

-Where is he living and where are you living now?


-Could you explain your situation a little more?

Thank you again for trusting us with your problem. Please reply as soon as possible so that we can finish answering your question.

Customer: replied 4 years ago.
Hello again well im 25 years old, and he is 45 years old,he is from canada and iam from morocco,we got married in UK last November 2008 we lived together for a month there, he comes to visit me in Morocco every 3 months and stay for 3 weeks with me,I want my marriage to work, and the reason he being this way, it is because he knew how my relationship was with my ex i was 20 years old,i would send sex mails and videos ,i did same for my husband but after we got married i stopped doing this because i got depressed,and he said he wont take less than what my ex had, so he is forcing me now to do that or he would leave me, he say he wants all of me or nothing,he knows im depressed and the reason of my depression is because we are apart i did explain all to him but he being stubborn and the way he treating me its making me even more depressed.
any suggestion of what we can do???
Expert:  KimberlyF replied 4 years ago.
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