Wow, can't believe I didn't hone in on that bit of information. I was so caught off gaurd by what he shared with me, totally blew me away. But, he felt I needed to know his secret because of how he feels about me and the trust factor we have going. I just don't know if I can feel the same way I did before he told me. Will time change all that? I asked him if he would be faithful to me, his answer was yes. He doesn't want to live the alternative lifestyle or pursue it. I am just not certain I will feel the same over time. Should I hang in there and see what happens. This is like a tripple whammy. He's married, he's bi, what next! He told me when we first started talking that he would never hurt me, this hurts. I had trust issues with my first marriage, and that was with other women. Now men and women! Should I keep going on with this or simply end it? He has other wonderful qualities, he is educated, talented and I have much to learn from him. Thanks!