It's seems like this leopard didn't change his spots and he is the same guy that used you for both money and sex before. If he is talking to other women then it's best that you don't get your feeling involved because they will only get hurt again. Even if he was trying to get you to tell him how you feel that was disrespectful for him to do it that way if he truly respects and cares about you he wouldn't treat you this way. He would not have come back if you hadn't opened the door for him to come back. He may have gotten a hold of you because he knew how you were from before it was easy for him and he thought you may be the same person as before and even though your feelings are genuine for him I don't think he has noble intention when it comes to a relationship with you. Your last statement was dead on he is a "JERK" and isn't going to change any time soon and you have to make up your mind that you deserve better and want better for yourself, if you know he is a womanizer then allow those other women to put up with his behavior he will realize what he had in you and then it will be too late. Don't waste anymore of your time on this guy he has not shown that he deserve it and really hasn't worked towards showing you his true feelings and treating you like a true princess. Find someone that will respect you both as a person and as a lover.
CHER THANKS FOR EVERYTHING NOW I THINK I HAVE TO GET A MANS OPINON THAN I WILL MAKE THAT $15 PAYMENT. I AM NOT SURE HOW TO DO THIS IF I REJECT YOU SO I CAN GET A MANS OPINON AND THEN DECIDE AFTER TO GIVE YOU THE 15 DOLLARS HOW DO I GO ABOUT DOING THIS ? I WILL WAIT FOR YOUR RESPONSE BEFORE I REJECT YOU SO I CAN PAY THE RIGHT PERSON ONCE I GET A MANS OPINON ON THE MATTER. WAITING ....... FOR YOUR REPLY AND THANKS AGAIN
Cher asked me if I would step in and give you my views on the subject. I would be more then happy to assist you, though I do ask that you accept her answer instead of opting her out as she has invested quite bit of time and energy in your question (And she is a great expert!)
If you can answer a couple questions for me so I can get a better understanding of your situation that would be helpful. Please be as honest as you can, I will promise you that I will not pull any punches and will give you honest feedback on your situation. I will never tell you what you want to hear just to please you, I will give you honest feedback to use as you see fit. I do have to leave for work in a few minutes, so I may not be able to reply when you come back online. If this is the case I will prepare a answer for you and get it to you first thing in the morning.
1) How do you feel about him? (Are you OK with just being some one he "hooks up" with or are you thinking this may turn into something more)
2) Am I correct in assuming that at the beginning you did express to him that you were OK with it being like this......not looking for commitment?
3) Why did he leave in the first place, was their a argument or did he simply stop showing up?
4) Where do you want to see this go....are you looking for commitment now or in the future?
I DO FEEL AT TIMES THAT I MAY BE IN LOVE WITH HIM BECAUSE OF THE CONNECTION OF CHEMISTRY WE SHARE. HE DID ASK ME TO BE HIS GIRL ONCE BEFORE BUT LETTING ME KNOW THERE WOULD BE OTHER RELATIONS HE'S QUITE STUCK ON HIMSELF HOWEVER I REPLIED WHAT MAKES YOU THINK I WANT TO BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND AND THAT ENDED THE CONVERSATION . IT POSSIBLE I COULD GET HIM THAT INTERESTED IN ME AGAIN IT WOULD BE NICE TO TURN THE TABLES ON HIM WHO KNOWS IT COULD TURN INTO SOMETHING ?
YES IN THE BEGINING I WAS OK WITH JUST BEING LOVERS AS I HAVE A TRUST ISSUE WITH MEN SO YES YES YES
HE FOUND ANOTHER GIRL THAT WAS MORE EXCITING SINCE IT WAS NEW FOR HIM WE STILL SPOKE ON RARE OCCASSIONS BUT HE ALWAYS KEPT A DISTANCE IN THE BEGINING HE SAID THINGS WERE MOVING TO FAST FOR HIM THEN HE TOLD ME HE FELT LIKE YELLING AT ME AS IF I WAS HIS 15 YEAR OLD WIFE THAN HE MOVED I HOUR AWAY
IN THE FUTURE I WOULD LIKE TO SEE HIS TRUE FEELINGS IF HE EVEN HAS ANY. HE ALSO SHOWED ME SOME HAND CUFFS WE USED IN THE BEGINING OF OUR RELATIONSHIP THEY WERE IN HIS CLOSET WITH COBB WEBS GROWING ON THEM HE SAID REMEMBER THAN HE SAID I NEED TO THROW THEM AWAY BUT I AM ALMOST SURE HE TUCKED THEM AWAY IN HIS CLOSET AS IF HE WAS KEEPING A MEMORY OF US DON'T YOU THINK? WE HAVE LOTS OF MEMORIES I KNOW HE WON'T FORGET IT'S SPECIAL WHAT WE HAVE BUT HE'S ALWAYS PUSHING ME TO SEE HOW MUCH OF HIS BULLSHIT I WILL TAKE WHY? IF HE DOES NOT WANT ME WHY ARE WE STILL CONNECTED STILL IN CONTACT STILL HAVE EACH OTHERS PHONE NUMBERS STILL HAVING SEX EVEN THOUGH IT NOT AS OFTEN AS I WOULD LIKE BUT HE DOES LIVE FAR AWAY HE MOVED BY THE WAY TO BE CLOSER TO HIS SON