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-In what ways does he feels it's your fault?
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If you have talked to him about how you feel and told him the affect it is having on you and still he does nothing and says it's your fault then it may be time to get reacquainted with old friends you lost touch with and hang out with them, go to the movies or dinner or a night at the club. It seems he doesn't take into consideration your feelings and how alone you feel. It's time to make up your mind as to whether you want to stay there and continue to feel alone and deserted or if it's time to leave and reclaim your life and stop living like a prisoner. He does these things because he knows you will be right there waiting for him what you are going to have to do is show him that you can get out on your own with some help from friends. Show him that you won't be defendant on him to take you where you need to go. If he sees that you are serious about getting out of the house he may be apt to ask you to come more places with him. As long as he sees you stuck there at home he will continue to keep you held up in the house. Right now he feels he has it made he can come and go as he please and he still has you there cooking and cleaning for him, of course he will not make an effort because he knows he doesn't have to do that right now, you have to show him that has changed and that he needs to make more of an effort or else you are gone.