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To be honest if you do wait it will only be the same things you went through before and he may not even divorce her but make false promises to you just so that you will give him what he wants. With that being said I suggest you not wait for him and if he gets divorced and then comes and finds you then maybe you could consider it but I really doubt he will especially if his family accepts this other woman they will make it very hard for him to leave. I would tell him to get divorced first and then come talk to you but also he will be deserting his pregnant wife you don't want that on your conscience and you have to ask yourself "would I want that done to me?" I think you should find someone that won't dessert you and your child just for the sake of his family.