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My husband earned so hardly his respect from his frinds and now-me ruine d it. What is wrong with me. Like las sunday he ask me to take a walk with him, i agree . got dress and just before going out-he told me that he decide to watch movie first after that-and i was dress, even made some food. I made a fastt because he declined in the last minutes-and he told me that i ruined his weekend and instead of resting , because his job is very very hard-he told me -yyou give me more nervous.why i am like that
and i am 25 years old
thank you so much \
and now i am ashame to look at my husband-i feel so guilty. I am ashame to meet his brother now-everydoby stops respect me. My husband said-everybody was suiprised by you-and i hummuliate him like that
You got so use to be being alone that you don't know how to handle affection from anyone else, Even though you had your mother she was sick most of the time so you had to take care of yourself, it's hard for you to depend on someone else because for so long you had yourself to depend on but if you want your marriage to last you have to let go of that and learn that your husband loves you and won't leave you as long as you do not push him away and it seems like that is what you are doing unknowingly. You may need to talk to a counselor to help get past this wall you have built and allow your husband in if you do not want to end up in divorce court you are going to have to do something because it seems as though he is getting fed up. You got upset because he was talking to other people and not to you but you have to learn that he has friend and people that he associates with and maybe you should mingle more or meet their wives or girlfriend and talk to them while he is talking and hanging out with friends. You have that only child syndrome where you don't know how to share what you have like a child with toys it's been just you for so long that you didn't have to share anything, what you have to realize is that in a marriage you have to share things and sometimes you have to have your own space and "me time." The marriage is fixable if you are willing to try harder maybe 2 to 3 times a week dress and do your make up just to please your husband, give him time with his friends and not try to monopolize all of his time, communication is key in a marriage and instead of running away you really have to stay and talk to him or else you may find yourself alone again and you don't want that to happen. Don't try to change over night that is not possible but he has to see some attempt to change or this could be the end of your relationship.