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You will continue to accept these kinds of people into your life until you decide what your worth is and that you deserve better than what you are getting. Many people believe that it is better to be treated badly than to be alone but what they don't understand is it comes hand and hand, even with people in your life you can still feel alone especially if those people do nothing but take, take, take never giving physically and mentally. There is a saying: "One good friend is better than ten fake friends." You are desperate to have people around you that you don't look or take the time to see if they are there to truly help you or use you for the things that you have. What you need to do is take the time to see if they are true friends or just users and then let them go. Take that second chance at life to be a little selfish and think about yourself and not others when you can love and care for yourself it makes you stronger and less tolerant of people who are out to hurt you. Even if you can only find one true friend it's better than having friends and people around that treat you badly and steal from you, people who do not have your best interest at heart should not be in your life for another moment. When you have money and materialistic things it's hard to know who is in your life because they truly want to be and who is there to use and abuse your kindness. I think you have to work on your self esteem before the other changes can take place once you truly know that you deserve better it will be so much easier to get those toxic people out of your life.