He is 25. She was his first. He has dated others. She is 25.
He is being deployed and his has caused some friction between us. I have been trying to not think about it and make our time good before he goes.
There are other girls interested in him.
I have tried to support him. It encourages it to go on. I know I have to let him grow up. My concern is for his safety while he is gone. She causes drama and he needs to be focused on being safe.
I know I am being a mom and can not protect him. I want things to be good before he leaves. He is spending his time with her and not his family and friends. I am hurt by it and do not know how to get past it.