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All I can tell you is if you don't feel comfortable enough to lose your virginity to him then don't do it, that is something sacred and want your first time to be special because if you have a bad experience that could shape how you see sexual relationships after this. Chances are if you have to ask if you are ready then you probably aren't ready and are more afraid of loses him because you aren't giving in and if he isn't patient enough to wait until you are ready then he may not be the one that will give you that special experience. Maybe communicate to him you how you thought your first time would be and if he doesn't bend over backwards to do those things for you then that is a sign that you shouldn't do it, the guy should be more than willing to make that time special for you especially if they know it is going to be your first time and it isn't a time for him to be selfish about the experience.