Yes my husband was traveling when I first got married.
I found out about the affair by using eblaster and a private eye to look up phone bill information. Dr. Harley and I did not know he was lying until 2007 when he admitted the affair to me. I called Dr. Harley on the issue. He maintained there was No affair the whole time.The woman is not married she lives in NYC we live in Maryland. The projects are in Conneticut, always. I found her boyfriend in 2005 and called him on the issue, He knew. Still my husband maintained his innocence. He agreed to the third child but said money would be short so I would have to work full time so we could afford everything. I agreed. Before this third child I had an abortion because I got pregnant 2005 and he gave me a hard time. In 2007, I had the third child which is here today.
When I say he is not completely nice I mean he always has something to say to make me feel smaller. Like You wanted this baby not me that is why we wont have a great vacation. Or No one likes you. Not even your own family likes you. He tries to pysche me out but I am much smarter.
At the time I was to take him at his word and if it was found out he was lying then go to Plan B which was to file for a separation.
Thanks so much for your time,