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It seems that you have a very supportive wife who understood the feelings you had for this woman or she would not have called her while you were in the hospital and I think she will understand you wanting to see her again before you pass on but hopefully you will live 20 more years, you are not alone many people married and single find themselves going to back to a time when they were happy and in love even if they are married they often wonder how that person is and what is going on in their life. Make sure that your wife is okay with you seeing this woman again and make sure she knows your feeling for her so that things don't get awkward. If your wife knew that you dated her when you were younger and still contacted her when you were ill in the hospital I think she will understand your feelings. Honesty may be best in this situation just explain to your wife that you love her and cherish her this will ease her worries and she may be more understanding.
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