1)If she is seeing or sleeping with this guy, do you want to be with her still? Yes. above all I Love my wife & am dedicated to making my catholic vows stick. I would say she is my best friend until recently when she shut me out. I do know that I am probably partialy to blame as I confronted her several months ago about staying out & not calling me. I tried to use divorce as a scare tactic but then told her that I didn't mean it & that it was in the heat of the argument. She seemed to be more distant since then & seemed to do alot more of the staying out all night without calling. I work nights 3 days a week so it was of particular concern.
2)What were you arguing about? The going out all night with friends & never calling me to let me know she was okay was the original argument but then she seems to pick fights now about everything from me sleeping during the day(although I work nights) to me needing anger managemment counseling ( which i was told by a counselor that I didn't) to just about everything she can conger up.
3) we are both 37
still waiting on reply as I am supposed to meet & speak with my wife tomorrow 11/15.