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Yes, he has done this with other women. It seems to be a cycle. He likes the newness of it, they become overly clingy or I slam my foot down and It ends. He stops for a few months and it starts again. He claims that he's just easy to talk to.
She was not an ex. Just someone he knew in h.s. He did not want to upset me by bringing up the past.
I feel guilty snooping. I feel dirty. I do not like how it hurts afterwords in my heart. It consumes me.
No, I have not been able to read the texts, he deletes all of them.
If I had not caught him or saw the bill, I would not have a clue. We are getting along beautifully. We are buying a piece of property for retreat. We are buying a new car for me. We are going on a family retreat this weekend.
He had an emotional affair 6 years ago. He would not call it that, but I will. He messed around with a 20 year old last Halloween in a drunken stupor in front of me. I have never cheated.
I am 37 and he is 40.