90% of the time he does work from home.
I am 39 he is 49
I was looking for some pictures which I thought we had deleted, so I checked in the deleted items box
He says he is fine and satisfied with our sex life. I am not. I get this feeling that he wants sex when we have somewhere to be or an appointment of some sort. I am up for it anytime, but not when I have a prior commitment somewhere. So to me it's as if he is setting me up. On most nights, I go to bed alone. I usually try to be in bed by 10 or 11. He says that his brain works better later at night that's why he stays up so late. OK. But sometimes, it just so happens that I am up at 12 or 1 and still go to bed alone.
Unsure and not clear any more.
I know for certain that these pictures would not bother me if my sex life was fully satisfied.
I have never cheated. I know he had cheated on his first wife, 20 years ago.
We discuss it and talk about. However, how can we try new things when we can't even sleep together when I am still awake. We recently came back from a 5 day vacation in Scottsdale. No work, nothing holding us back. By chance we woke up together and fell asleep together. We had one episode of making love - that's it. Awhile back, I tried to make advances, but it was either not the right time or he was busy with something. He wants me to make advances, but when I do, it's not the right time.