I am a psychologist and would be happy to help you. Has anything changed in your husband's life recently? Any problems at work? How was your sex life up until November 07? Were there any problems?
His reaction to your sexual overtures is somewhat disconcerting. Most men are not going to have a problem with their woman dressing up in something sexy for them. He is lashing out at you and distancing himself from you in order to avoid some deeper issue. He may have difficulty with intimacy, but it is strange that he suddenly stopped wanting sex after sleeping with you since '06. I can't know what exactly is motivating this change, but I would certainly be concerned if I were you. I wonder what happened when he started work at the chevy dealer...perhaps this problem is related to his work. I would suggest that you sit down with him and ask him to talk to you about what has changed since november 07. Tell him that you won't judge him for being honest but that you just want to understand because you feel like it is your fault. Help him to realize how guilty he makes you feel when he won't talk to you about his lack of interest in sex. I have a feeling he will react defensively if you attack him or accuse him. Be sweet and just let him know that you want to be there for him as his partner. He is likely experiencing a lot of shame and embarrassment about this. He may be too embarrassed to talk to you about this issue. If he won't talk to you, you might consider asking him to go see a therapist or maybe you could go to couples counseling.
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