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It seems to me that she is just trying to find closure in her relationship with her child's father and the fact that she is moving is just keeping her busy, show her that you are there for her and will be there for her until she is ready. Yes you are right she needs time to adjust to everything and get moved into to her parents I'm sure after everything is said and done she will contact you but just don't stop talking to her show her that you are still interested in getting reacquainted with her and possibly take her and her son out to dinner or a movie or something fun. I would give her a week to two weeks after she moves in with her parents and then ask her. She may just have a lot of different emotions right now about ending a long term relationship and where she wants things to go with you and she may be confused because her son's father is all she has known except for the one guy you mentioned it takes a lot to get over those feelings. So just give her some time but don't blow it still keep in contact with her even if it's just to ask how things are going and to tell her that she is on your mind. You let two opportunities go (high school and the funeral) don't let this one go also.