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I am 28 and she is 31. about a month ago she told me that she wanted to give up and was not sure if she wanted to be married anymore. We got married at a year. We fell hard and fast for each other. She is currently staying at a apartment house sitting for one of her bosses and has been there for a month. I have also not been totally emotionally there for her in the past, but with this I am ready to be a better person and make some changes to better improve our marriage. She is being very cold and distant and really just wants to give up. I have told her that I think that it is worth the time and dedication to make things work and have been totally committed to it. We have seen a counselor three times over the past few weeks, but I feel as though it a waste of time because she has emotionally checked out. I want her in my life more than anything and I am ready to be a better person. We never really argued, I was always supportive to her and never hurt her on purpose. I have asked her to open her heart just a little and see where things can go and she keeps going back and fourth on what she wants to do. One minute she says that she will give it some time and another she just wants to end it. This is that last thing that I want. I don't know what to do next. I have asked her to stay at the house at least a few nights a week with me to work on this, but she has not done so. I think that it is hard to mend anything if she will not come around. She has assured me that there is not another person and that is the last thing she wants right now. All I want is just a little bit of her heart to open up and just see that things are not worth just throwing out the window. Thank you for your help and if you need anything else please let me know.