Iam 56. My husband is 59. By sex therapist I mean there is someone willing to sex me up without committment. I'm trying to find out if it would be good to mention it to him or complicated his feelings of inadiquacy...The psycologist that he talks to knows that I have it in mind and would talk to someone before I take that step. I have mentioned a urorlogist but he has not done anything about it. I'm thinking of trying to set up another urologist appointment for him next week. He is on blood pressure medicine, plavix. He had two minor strokes last year.