Actually he said "its a date then! see you there." We met there, he offered to pick me up but I said we could just meet there.
He is 49 I am 47.
This has not come up in conversation but for our 2nd meeting we met at a street dance and he did not offer to even buy me a beverage. I think thats odd. Cheap even.
When we ordered our drinks, he got water (in a glass-not bottled) and I had an ice tea. The counter gal said it was $1.50 and he said "for the water!" and laughed it off as I paid for my tea. Not a huge deal, but come on. $1.50!
Maybe I am being old school but I think its tight.
Later on when we ordered our food at the counter and the gal asked us if it was together I could see him shake his head NO and I just got the money out for mine.....
oh-yes He asked me to lunch and a movie for today. He then said "ok, its a date!" Then the date went as outlined prior.