Okay - to answer your questions
One - I have never been married. She has been married twice.
Two - Her first marriage ended about 22 years ago and the second one ended about 10 to 12 years ago. She had at least one other long term relationship that ended about 3 to 5 years ago - long distance - he lived about 250 miles away.
Three - I very very much like this woman - and if she were receptive to me - I could probably totally fall completely in love with her. She is absolutely beautiful, very bright and actually quite sensitive and spiritaully oriented as I am. She has one hell of a lot going for her.
Four - The topic of her not feeling a spark from me - was when I aske her if she wanted to spend some real time with me. This was on our third and last "date." She was saying how she needed to take care of her daughter and other things. And the "no spark- no romantic proclivities " comment came up.
Other pertinencies - She says that she is in some other relationship with a guy - another rather long distance thing - in NY - she lives in PA - as I do. But she added that she feels no romantic attachment with this guy either. Another thing. She feels that she may have been molested when she was small. She thinks that there is a good possibility of this. She is actually a therapist herself and that the people she helps represents herself - but that they have them just to a greater degree - that she at one time suffered from depression and other not-so-nice maladies.
I consider myself very well adjusted in many areas of my life and that I am very rational in most things. I have an excellent view of myself and who I am.
I simply think that there is GREAT potential in this as I am really impressed with so many things about her. But if we can not get the ball rolling with a simple kiss - something that we have shared - then how can she start to see the person that I really am. And all the things that I want to offer her and give her. I do not think she REALLY knows how beautiful she really is - both on the outside and the indside.
Thank you so much for helping me with this . Bless you.