Hello and welcome back,
Why do you think its crazy to feel you are falling in love with her?
How do her actions speak louder? (Care to elaborate?
Falling in love is a stage matter.........really lol. Many people fall in love quickly in a relationship. Its a new exciting thing. With time it can turn into a lasting love or can fizzle out. Since you have not took it to a intimate level this is still very new and fresh. The good news is as long as you take it at both of your own paces and are honest with each other this could turn out to be a long term relationship.
The key is going with the flow and not pushing anything. It sounds like she is hinting at wanting to know how you feel. Keep in mind in todays society women are looked down on for latching on to a guy or saying "I love you" to soon. Sounds like she is hoping you will start this or hoping to find out how you feel before she steps up to the plate.
I know its hard to tell a girl how you feel........but doing so will open the doors up on this relationship and let her know how you feel. Then she can be honest with her own feelings and this can lead a natural course. Being honest is the best thing you can do at this point........let her know how you feel and what you would like to see.