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Ive known my friend/boyfriend for 2 years and we

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I've known my friend/boyfriend for 2 years and we dated off and on. He did ask me to be his roomate back in April and I told him yes, but I didn't move in because I was in school and I wasn't working. Then he contacts me 3 months later saying that he has a gf and I didn't move in fast enough. Now, he claims that he wants him and I to be closer and to have a one woman/one man relationship. He depends on me alot. I need to discuss some other issues with him. I want to return the key that he gave me. I did tell him that I'm going to give the key back to him, but he told me to keep it and not to throw it a way
Submitted: 8 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Ms Chase replied 8 years ago.

Did you mean to post the same question or is there some part of this in particular you wanted to discuss?

Customer: replied 8 years ago.
oops no i didn't mean to post the same question. He was on the chat line last night and this morning. He still is ignoring my messages and I really need to tell him how I feel. I'm angry at this point.
Expert:  Ms Chase replied 8 years ago.
Whats the chat line?

Why do you think he's ignoring you?

Customer: replied 8 years ago.
he's not returning my phone calls or text messages and I want to return the key that he gave me.
Expert:  Ms Chase replied 8 years ago.
Do you live close enough to drop it off to him?

You just want to break it off with him?

Customer: replied 8 years ago.
No i don't. He told me where he lives, but i never see his car. I checked at the place where he told me that he works, and i didn't see his car. Yes, i'm tired and I feel like he's playing games.
Expert:  Ms Chase replied 8 years ago.
It does sound like something is going on that he's not being truthful about. What you can do is write him a letter and include the key when you mail it. Other than that you would have to wait to hear back from him and ask him to meet you so that you could give it to him in person. What do you think?

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Customer: replied 8 years ago.
he doesn't go over to his parent's house that often. I'll tell him to meet me at a resturant. I wish i could contact a relative of his and ask if he's married and if he has any kids. He claims that he doesn't. He won't have his phone on much longer, because I'm going to have it disconnected, and I'm thinking about using the number.
Customer: replied 8 years ago.
I also want to let other women know about him and warn them.
Customer: replied 8 years ago.
Expert:  Ms Chase replied 8 years ago.
There's a website called where you can list all of the info about him and your experience. If you shut down his phone and transfer the number to you, you might be able to see who's calling. Or if you have the bill you can see what numbers he called and who called him.

My advice would be to get him back his key and let it go. You can't save any woman he decides to date, and it's not really your job to try. It's more about getting back at him anyway. The hardest thing to accept is that a man may treat one woman a certain way, and not another. The best thing you can do for yourself, is to move on and find someone who is willing to be honest with you and give you the type of love you want to have. If you dwell on him or try to keep involved with him somehow, it's only going to keep you emotionally tied to him. If you realize that he's just a waste of your time and move on, then you are free to have a better life. Even if that means just throwing his key don't need contact with him to move on with your life. I welcome your thoughts, let me know if you want to talk more.


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