HiCustomer Thank you for asking your question on Just Answer. By the way, it would help me to know:
-What are your ages?
-How long have you been married?
-Do you want to stay in the relationship and make it work?
-Why do you want to know her name and where she is from? Is it because you want to make sure he can not see her anymore?Thank you again for trusting me with your problem. Please reply as soon as possible so that I can finish answering your question.
My husband is 54 and i am 51. we have 4 children 24, 23, 21, 19.we have been married 26 years. my husband works out of town alot and i would feel alot more comfortable knowing where she is. I found out about the affair in feb. 2008 and became very depressed not knowing who she was or where she was so he gave me a false name.after 3 months i realized this wasnt true so he told me another name and 3 months later i find out thats not true.I feel in the meantime we have worked on the marriage and we can have alot of fun together,even our sex life has been better. but now im at a place finding out the 2cd person isnt true the lieing is starting to be more hurtful than the affair.I feel he still sharing a bond of secrecy with her.I think Ive waited long enough for the truth it will be almost 6 months and i feel im being dragged trrough the mud. i deserve to know the truth by now, and if he cant trust me enough that i wont call her than maybe we should end the marriage. after all he is the one who made the mistake not me. He will turn the tables though and say to me i thought you loved me enough to wait until i feel its the right time to tell you.