It seems we had a problem with the chat. May I ask you a couple of questions?
How do you feel about her now?
What are your ages?
What is your question?
Hi, thank you for that info. Do you want to talk to me, or do you want to talk to someone in legal? I don't believe you can recoup money you gave away, but if you want to speak to a lawyer, I can move the question for you. If you want to talk about the relationship, let me know.