No sir, I don't see any negative feedback from you. What made you think that?
I'm excited to hear that you'll be meeting Sandy, and will keep my fingers crossed and send up prayers for you. Did you exchange pics with her?
Did you get the other picture I sent you today?
Thank you, XXXXX XXXXX really respect you in every way..
I hit the local pub friday and saterday, hoza qurvo, slept in my car. Paying dearly but I can"t say I didn't have fun ;-0) First time in years!!!!!
O.K. I made a commitmont, (dam my spelling) to Sandy. she called me this afternoon and I told her that I can wait for her. Is that Okay or am I responding to my selfishness?Any way I made that commitment so I will stay with my word.. I think that it will work. She wants my pic.My computer skills don't fit into my form of art. Can Moreen (sp) get a pic. to her? ......I'm really hungover, don't think I'll do that again for a long while dumb, dumb!!..............DJHank
How long does she want you to wait?
I can send her the pic you sent me if you like?
Ms Chase, It could be up to tree months. But probably two, maybe less.
I'm still suffering from Hosea. Been doing a 6 ounce glass of burgundy about every 4 to 5 hours, and I am slowly recovering. I'm not convinced that IU am a horrible person because I went out for a good time, hell, I'm the one that's paying for it, except to summons a driver. Sheryl told me yesterday that I was absolutely disgusting . Rub it in like I don't know I went out and got screwed up. I'm already paying dearly, Sandy seems to be as real as possible to be in the times we are living in. Ya, she's a little or more fat (body wise) but her ability to pick up on some of the more obscure things on the phone were a good sign that it can work.
Oh! please set her my picture, And can you try to tell her what you may have picked on.me from our writings? That's a hard one, I know because you probably don't know me any better than her. Tried to get through to Kathy so she can understand the difference between you and some dating service. It's so much more personal.
Is it too much to ask you to drop her a line and tell me what you think? And 'cause I don't have much in computer skills could you or Moreen send her my picture,I prefer she gets a full body pic, I'll have to check my money situation but you know I'll take care of the monetary. Yes, the Pub got a chunk of my cash, their must be 20 friends that are covering me right know, None, and I've asked if I over steeped my self, They all assured me I was in control. I mean that all it cost the farm was to get me and my car back home because I wouldn't drive myself in the condition I was in. I guess most of all, when I told Sandy what I did, she just said she has done the same a couple of times, Nobody jumped her ass! God, I'm such a bad boy! ;-). Can you ever forgive me?
You know I CARE,
I will send her the picture and a note. Just so you know, I've had my share of time with Jose Cuervo and Mr Jack Daniels, and it doesn't make you a bad person, as long as you don't marry them. :) Everything in moderation, and you're entitled to go overboard every once in a while.
You never sent me a full body pic, so when you can, let me know.
On the bottom of each form letter that comes to me as your answer Is a message saying ".......Please talk to me before leaving negative feedback,.........." When I got back from my dumb, dump in town I checked for your messages. With one eye closed so I wasn't seeing double, that was what I read. I had just been bitched out from Sheryl and thought I may have said something! No, I just wasn't paying attention. to what I was reading. I think I was still a little foggy!..
Thank you for sending the picture of me to Sandy. I'm still not all there but Sandy seemed to take it all in stried. Sandy sounds very real. She doesn't have to be ideal, just satisfactory. Maybe you will get a similar feeling when you send her a note, who knows? Like you said in the be gaining, it's the chance I have to take.Now if you said,forget Sandy, I'm coming out there, I would have to give it all up to you. ;-).
I guess I may have a small crush on you,
Don't let it go to your head now!
Truth be told, I kind of thought that might be the case, but it doesn't matter, you didn't leave negative feedback, and I didn't do anything to make you leave it, so all is well, lol.
Thank you, XXXXX XXXXX sweet and nice of you to say. I think your wonderful and deserve a wonderful woman to make your life complete. I'm hoping I can help you accomplish that goal. Don't worry, I won't let it go to my head ;-)
Talk to you soon
I have not heard back from Sandy yet, but did want to post some new replies I have gotten. It's up to you if you want to reach out, and at least let them know you got the email. You can also tell them that you met someone if you like, it's up to you.
kayla starr kayla at riseup.net (of course replace the at with @)
Hi:I just wandered into your notice while exploring the ads on Craigslist this morning. I'm a lot like you: love the wilderness of S. Oregon--lived in Takilma for 10 years, now in Ashland massaging for a living, organizing for sustainability, playing with friends, tending my garden. Not an artist, though I am always doing some craft, such as knitting, beading, mandalas, etc. My passions include growing food and medicinal herbs, my work as a healer/health coach, being in the wilderness, swimming with dolphins, social/political activism, AND my 2 year old granddaughter, who lives in the Bay Area. I love cooking, scrabble, ritual, singing, swimming. I am also in my 60's and still healthy, playful, active, curious. I do not like to hang out with drinkers, tobacco smokers, conservatives, fanatics, angry, withdrawn folks. My strong suits are intelligence, sense of humor, communication, flexibility, resourcefulness, integrity. My path is to find balance, be present, love what IS, compassion, and to be the change the world is calling for. So, if these words interest you, let me know and we can send pictures.....K
Sandy has been calling in almost every day. She said she would like me to pull my ad and she would be down in about two months. She's all about money and body chemistry. I undersand people and there dam money,money,money. But I asked her what she ment body chemistry, She says , you know, thing like body oder. Want to say the "F" word but didn't. So I said I can turn down advertising but all I could do about body oder is to shower regularly. But if I was to pull my ads and wait two months or so, I would like her to, atleast say with me for a month before making a decision about body chemistry. She, I can't make any commitments to that. FFFFFFFFFF. we nead to start over. and she can kiss my royal American. ....DJHank
Relax, take a deep breath....
What she is talking about is pheromones. Its the belief that people's chemistry or their attraction to each other is based on the pheromones that we all release from our skin. It has nothing to do with showering or being dirty. I think your making too much of it, or maybe she is making too much of it I'm not sure, but I wouldn't worry about it.
When you meet someone online, or on the phone, you can hit it off with them really well, because the relationship is very cerebral, and you are dealing with their mind. When you meet someone in person, and you sit close to them, their bodies give off pheromones, and/or a 'scent', and thats where chemistry comes in. You can be around someone who is very attractive and still feel nothing, then you can be around someone who you might not normally find attractive, and for some reason feel drawn to them....that's chemistry.
I'm glad that the two of you are talking. Did she say she got my email? As she never responded, so I didn't know if she got it or not. I can take down the ad (i think) or I can continue to forward the responses to you, and you can save them. You can respond to each person, and let them know that you think you found someone, and if it's ok with them you will contact them if things don't work out. Some may say yes, some may say no. but you will have the contacts in case things don't work out.
Don't be so grouchy and don't look down on her for being concerned about money. She may be able to teach you some things, and you may be able to teach her new things.
I guess my messages arn't coming through? Having line problems and not getting any e-mail returns from any one. Don't know any other way to reach you. Please respond if this message gets to you...............DJHank
I did respond, did you see my response above?
Yes, Miss Chase,
But I have sent two emails after your last reply. Got drastic problems on my side hope you get this.
I hear from you again tomorrow, eary, OK but computer in going back to Lee for a while tomorrow so won't yet if we are able to comunicate................DJHank
You sent two emails to me? or to reponders of the ad?
If you sent them to me, then no I did not recieve them, as you can see there are no responses after my last response to you. If you mean that you have gotten no responses in your email from women who have responded to the ad, then I'm not sure, maybe that is an issue with your email provider or your computer. Either way, when you get it straightened out, let me know, Im not going anywhere. I'll be here for you.
Sandy isn't it. She was coming back to Medford in two months, it appears she was looking for a place to stay until she got her own place. (assumpsion) Any way, I asked her if I was going to come here to live and I had asked her if she wanted me to pull the ad. She said "please do". So I asked you to pull the ad. When she mentioned body chemistry I said if you want me to wait two months or more than please stay with me for a couple of weeks before making any decisions. I have not been able to comunicate with her sence. Doesn't that tell me something? I'm no dummy! Carry on, we'll just keep looking. (she was WAY to fat for me anyway) ;-)..............DJHank
PS 5'2" and a hundred and 160 + and 10 percent for error.
This is a new one, let me know if you want her email and I will send it thru a mod. Whats going on with your computer? Are you back online? Have you spoken to Sandy? She never returned my email :(
Hello in Williams. I'm not sure why I'm writing this reply but you keep getting on my mind and so here I am Telling you and I don't know the first thing about you .I have found your listing and keep coming back to it over and over again in the last couple of weeks.Why? I do not know except you are very much in line with my interests and I like the way you talk.Who in the world are you? You keep bugging my mind .I am pretty much as you describe.Artsy fartsie as my son would say[grown up and gone] and I am very much in love with nature.Love to play in the dirt and would rather be in my garden then most anywhere.Actually I came from that area to begin with.Was born in the old Ashand hospital and grew up there.My folks had a little ranch south of Ashland where we grew a good percentage of what we ate.I am artistic in many ways and wanted to teach art.Didn't happen and went many other directions and learned many other skills.I have been living alone a long time and can do just about anything I put my mind to.I live in the high mountains of Arizona [7,000 ft] so we get some pretty good winters up here.I still cut almost all of my own fire wood every year.I am 59 ,5'7" and around 150.I'm not a bible thumper and don't go to church unless you consider the woods church.I am at home in a pair of jeans and prefer them but know how to dress up and look like a lady.I know how to cook from scratch and can sew.and I have all the tools to do it with, I have deep blue eyes,Salt and pepper hair down to my waist[usually braided or up out of the way of work],and I have strong features I guess.I will send you a photo if you are at all interested in knowing what I look like.I have a good job and have worked all my life in many trades.I am presently a trainer in the medical division of a world wide company.I had better quit talking now and see about sending this thing to you.I've never done this before so I don't know what comes next.Am I supposed to give you an e mail address or something.my name is XXXXX XXXXX be neat if you were as nice as your ad is.
Hello Miss Chase,
Finally back on line!!!! ;-).
How about an update to start with O.K.
HELLOOOO Miss Chase ;-)!!!!!
Well,'m back on line or I can use the telephone again, what a mess! I don't think you got my last letter. Still have wiring to do but this will get me by. Please give me any updates including the last phone call I asked you to send my number to. She sent me She sent me an e=mail but I lost it ;-(. in the the process there of?
I trust that when the right lady comes along, it will be obvious. I would like to get some deserving lady out of the ghettos. I work well with the mentally impaired. I tike to teach. I am compitent to teach many things, especially music, oils, gardening, health, not to mention the time I spent living in a tee pee miles in to the mountains. I, presently have a "coon that eats from his bowl on the back pourch of my cabin. Bonkers, my cat, lies there an watches. My repore with tame or wild animals is extensive and instinciive. The same with plants. I feel that in another few years that the knowledge I have may be worth more than money. Do I sound egotistical, or just bohemian?
Waiting for your reply,
Good to be in contact again. Most people look at me as "out of tune", crazy! Yes to the average person I am considered crazy, well in a couple of years they will change their way of thing. Good to have you, I believe you understand me. That's in the 1% of our nation.
I'm back on line. I'm still having problems. I can't get a courser in this reply box. I have to right click then click on properties.
I haven't replied to the last e-mails as of yet. I feel we need to try a different approach. So far all of the replies I have answered to are much wealthier than me. I am looking for some one that needs a place to live. I believe we should be looking on the other side of the tracks. The last lady I was going with was a doctor, I felt like she was buying me. At any rate I am looking for some one that is needy, maybe a live-in. That could be either sex even though I would prefer a female. I'm really having problems using this page or reply box, I don't know, yet, if it's my computer or your reply box? :-(
i just click on the right mouse button, left click on properties, then click on (OK) that lets me write! ;-) don't hit the enter tab or you start all over? ;-)>.
Yes, a new start, anyone that starts their response with how much pension they are going to have in a few months doesn't really appeal to me. ;-)
DJHank, I'll try to stay in touch, got to change credit cards with Just Answer as I just consolidated with U S Bank.