I have asked that your question be moved to the proper category, wich is relationships. May I ask you a few questions?
What is your age?
Have you ever been in a relationship?
What have you tried so far?
Thank you for that info.
Where did you meet the last person you dated?
How long were you with her?
How old was she?
Why did you split up?
I'm sorry to hear that. There is a good (and free) dating website called www.plentyoffish.com. It puts you in touch with people directly in your area code, you can choose how far someone can live from you, their age, see profiles and pictures and leave your own ad as well. If you want to talk more let me know