Can you give me more info about the situation?
The more info you give me, the better I can help
I'm sorry, but I am still not undertanding what happened
Has a restraining order been given?
Who is the young person to you? who is the senior person to you?
Do you mean high school senior or senior citizen?
How old is each person exactly?
Is there a relationship between the two of them? If so, what kind?
Who is monitoring whos phone?
After this maybe I will understand more what's going on and can help better.
You have a 37 year old and a 67 year old, close friends. what else.....did something happen? If so, what happened?
A restraining order and a phone tap are two different things? Which one is it? How do you know about either or both?
Without any proof that there is a restraining order or phone tap, I would not automatically assume there is one. There could be other reasons why the person ruined the friendship, but it's hard for me to say without knowing more about the situation. Were the two of them intimate? or just friends? How was the friendship demolished? If this is someone you care about, you will want to talk to them and ask them why. If they will not talk to you, there's not really anything you can do except try and deal with the hurt of losing someone who you considered a friend.
I welcome your thoughts, let me know if you want to talk more