What is your age?
What is your question?
Have you done this before?
There's nothing wrong with having a fetish, most people do, of one kind or another. If this is what turns you on then that's your fetish. So, what is your question for me?
what is your city/state?
What have you tried so far?
If it;s ok with you, I'm going to do some research on this and post back to you tomorrow with what I find
My suggestion would be to utilize craigslist. It's a community message board, and they have a Charleston board here. You can post under men seeking women, casual encounters, misc romance, and under the discussion forums theres a listing called kink that deals with bdsm that you can post on as well to meet similar folks with similar lifestyles. Here are some Charleston bdsm links, here, here and here.