How JustAnswer Works:
  • Ask an Expert
    Experts are full of valuable knowledge and are ready to help with any question. Credentials confirmed by a Fortune 500 verification firm.
  • Get a Professional Answer
    Via email, text message, or notification as you wait on our site.
    Ask follow up questions if you need to.
  • 100% Satisfaction Guarantee
    Rate the answer you receive.
Ask Ms Chase Your Own Question
Ms Chase
Ms Chase, Life Coach
Category: Relationship
Satisfied Customers: 2897
Experience:  Over 20 yrs experience with Relationships, Sexuality, Friendship, and Family Issues
Type Your Relationship Question Here...
Ms Chase is online now
A new question is answered every 9 seconds

To make this short , me and my wife has been married for 7 ...

Resolved Question:

To make this short , me and my wife has been married for 7 yrs. She left home close to 2months now. She is living with a lesbian couple, one in which said that she loves her. Excuse my french but there is no other way to put this. the lesbian goes down on my wife but my wife dosn''t do anything to her. this is by my wife''s own admission. Even though i told her that this is adultry rather it is a man or a woman. she feels that she is doing nothing wrong. Please tell me that i''m not crasy.
Submitted: 9 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Ms Chase replied 9 years ago.
Answered via Just Answer Chat.
Expert:  Ms Chase replied 9 years ago.


I seems the chat didn't work correctly. My apologies.


First off, you're not crazy. Not one bit. Cheating is cheating whether its with a man or a woman, and whether its oral sex or not. Ask her how she would feel if you had oral sex from a man or a woman, would she consider that cheating? The problem is, the media bombards us with images of female bisexuality and lesbianism, they make it seems sexy, cool, the thing to be, that ALL men love it and welcome it with open arms, and that it's not cheating. The fact is, if it has a negative affect on your marriage, or your partner feels like they are being cheated on, then it is cheating....whether she wants to admit it or not. It is hurting you, you don't like it and she is being intimate with another human outside the realms of her marriage. You're not crazy.

I welcome your thoughts, let me know if you want to talk more


Ms Chase and other Relationship Specialists are ready to help you

Related Relationship Questions