She has a point, but what I am more concerned with is the fact that her ex moved back into the house with her. I would not move there until she moves out. The summer consists of the next 5 months. That gives you more time to get to know one another, and for you to see if she really plans on moving out. If she doesn't move out, I would not move that far to be near her. I welcome your thoughts. Let me know if you want to talk more.