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Can you tell me what happened?
I'm sorry, I still have no idea what you're talking about. Did you look down the wife's shirt? They complained to the manager? Is what a crime?
No, its not a crime. Even if you looked at her behind, she might not like it but there's no crime in looking at anyone. Is this what you were asking?
I looked at some of your other questions, don't forget to accept an answer if someone gives you a good answer, as that is the only way we get credit for our work.
Have you ever been seen by a counselor, psychologist or therapist?
How old are you?
Thanks for that additional info. There's nothing wrong with seeing a counselor, especially when they are able to let us know why we are feeling a certain way, or help with the panic attacks. If you have any other questions or ever want to talk, you can ask for me by name, just say you want to speak to Ms Chase and I will do my best to help you. Sleep well. Dont forget to click the green accept button so I can get credit for my work with you.
No it's not a crime, you did not do anything wrong.
Did you ever get to see the dr for your panic attacks? If so, what did they say?
well I'm glad to hear that. If you get a chance, let me know what med he has you on. I'm always here if you want to talk,
Anytime you want to talk about something that's happened, you can. It doesn't bother me if you explain it more than once, sometimes we need to be sure we understand each other. Sometimes I may ask the same questions more than once. So anytime you want to talk, just post and I will get back to you as soon as I can.
No, just looking at someone is not harassment. When it comes to women, you can look all you want, just try not to be so blatant about it. If she sees you looking at her, say "hello, how are you" and whether she answers or not, just keep doing your work or whatever you're doing. Of course most women will get upset if a guy looks at her chest or her behind too long, you can glance but don't stare and don't mention it to her. Other than that, you are good.
That's just the way teenagers are nowadays. I'm going to add something to what I have already told you. EVERYTHING I said does NOT apply to girls that are obviously underage. Regardless of how sexy they dress, you should not stare or look too long at them as that can lead to problems.
Most teenage girls want attention, but it's not morally right (and sometime illigal) for an adult man to give it to them. Understand that they are still children, and are just looking for a reaction.
Yes, its ok to look or glance at women, but not to stare.
No problem. :) Maybe you do worry a little too much, but there's nothing wrong with checking if you are not sure. Thats how you can know if something is right or wrong when you are in a situation that you are unsure of. Like I said earlier, there's nothing wrong with looking, God gave you eyes to see with, but you don't want to be rude and stare, and you especially want to be careful about staring at young girls, because that can get you in loads of trouble. I'm here whenever you want to talk.
ps please remember to click the green accept button if I have been helpful so that I can get credit for my work with you :)
Who would he say something to?
Have you talked to your doctor about counseling?
If you have fears that there are things you shouldn't talk about, or you feel overly suspicious of other people or feel like people are talking about you behind your back, this could all be a side effect of your anxiety. If you are still feeling this anxiety in the same way, even though you are taking medication, you should let your doctor know this, as he may have to adjust your medication. You can talk to him about counseling and what he recommends. I can counsel you as well, you do not have to accept every single answer I give you, but most will accept an answer here and there if they feel they are being helped. So let me know if that is something you want to do.
Hello my friend, I'm not sure what you are asking me. Are you saying she wants to leave your dad? Is she trying to leave? If so, why?
does she have alzheimers or anything like that? Or you just don't know whats wrong with her? Have all of you lived in Missouri before? Does she have family there? Does your dad want to move there? do you?
I think that it's important to be around family. Maybe move near one of his or her brothers. It really should be a decision you discuss with your dad because if she does not know what she is saying, or whats wrong with her, then maybe she doesn't really know what she wants. If your dad wants to move back there then thats one thing. Maybe she wants to move back there because she is familiar with that area. You have to look at where the money to live will come from, and who will take care of her or your dad if things get worse, like their health. Then think about where you'll live, will it be near a hospital, and is it a good hospital. What does your dad want to do?
No it's not harassment. Why didn't you smile at her?
No. Let me give you some meanings of harassment
You haven't done any of these things. So you have not harassed anyone just by looking at them.
No problem, remember what I said, looking is ok, staring can be considered rude.
No problem. Glad I can help. :)
Hello again friend, you are asking about stalking. Stalking usually consists of focusing on one particular person, following them around, harassing them, calling them, even if they are asking you to stop. This is not stalking. You just happened to walk in around the same time as them. As long as you did not follow them or bother them, then you did not stalk them.
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No, just glancing at someone, or looking at them is not doing anything wrong as long as you are not staring or staring at someone's body parts, that would seem rude
well, that sounds fine. do you ever speak to any of these girls you look at?
Oh ok, nothing wrong with that. Have you ever had a girlfriend?
Yes, that is a good idea to get help if you can...just be sure to make sure the person is doing all of the right things to help your mother, and is treating her good.
No, you didn't do anything wrong. When you talk to people and you are polite and respectful, then you don't have to worry about doing anything wrong. It's only wrong when you disrespect someone, say something inappropriate, like cursing at them. It seems that you didn't do anything like that, so I wouldn't be worried. Let me know if you want to talk more
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I'm not sure why you worry so much, I would think that it has something to do with your anxiety. Be sure to mention it to your doctor the next time you see him and let him know that you are still experiencing these symptoms, even though it's not as bad as before.
I don't think you upset that guy.
You are allowed to make a copy of your own check, it is not illegal. Be careful who you give money to 'fix' your credit, there are a lot of things you can do on your own to clean up your credit.
As long as you did not lift up your managers clothes, or bend over to look under her clothes, then you did not do anything wrong. She should know to sit properly so that she is covered, you did not do anything to see her behind, this was her fault. I know you were embarrassed, but it was not your fault.