Hello Desmond, it seems that we had some problems with the chat. Let me ask you a couple of questions.
You said that you were "asked to leave", do you mean that she asked you to leave your marital home?
Did you leave?
Are you still involved with this woman?
Do you think your wife is interested in having you back?
What are you afraid of losing the most?
What do you think you can do about your lack of desire for your wife? Do you know how you got to this point?
Is this your first time cheating?
I was ask to leave after I told her that I wanted to leave because I felt uncomfortable in the house, so I left. I am not involved with this woman anymore.
Yes, my wife has told me she wants to work on the marriage.
My family and half of my income .
I am in therapy for myself and then we are going to try some couples therapy.
No, second time.