What is your question?
You said, "my boyfriend and i have been together for almost six years, we have two small children together and we love eachother a lot, he is an adoted child who came from an abusive drug addicted mother, and his adopted family was sumwhat abusive and very detached. He doesn want to get married, and wont evan entertain the idea until we a MUCH older, i am 21 years old. I want another child but not out of wedlick i feel morally wrong having 2 children with a man who is not my husband!"
You never actually asked a question