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Reply to Ms Chase's Post: 1. Why wouldn't she give you her address?
     We were in an intimate relationsip for several years. We shared mutual loyalties, love and respect toward each other and were contemplating matrimony. I am a Methodist pastor, and the Bishop transferred me to a church in another city. She had a good administrative position as Dean of a State University and elected to remain in the city on her job.During my failure to visit and keep in contact with her on a regular basic, she started dating someone else and got married and moved to another State. After being married to this man for nine years, he deceased.
     I found out through a friend where she was employed and telephoned her. She was appalled and unfriendly during the telephoned conversation and did not want to talk. She also dispayed a strong feeling of displeasure or hostility toward me. She refused to give me her home address and telephone number. During this conversation, I did not let her know that I had been informed of her husband's death.

2. How are you acquainted with her?

     I met her at church. I consider her to be a very close friend, I will always adore her and will assist her if she has a need. I owe her my life.

3. How old are the two of you?
     
     She is 38 years old, and I am 45 years old.

4. Why did she send the card back?

     I do think she is anger at me and blame me for our failed relationship. I have asked her to forgive me.