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Since you have done just about everything to cure this cylinder 4 misfire I recommend a compression test and compare it to other cylinders. A possible valve concern is a possibility also a coil firing signal can be at fault also an injector pulse can be missing. I recommend you remove the plug and compare it to other plugs. A plug electrode appearance can many times give results to the cause.
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